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Saturday, May 10, 2025

From Despair to Discipline — Escaping the Debt Trap - Chapter 2 of 7

 

Financial hardship has become the “norm” for the average American. At the time of this writing, Tennessee ranks number one in the nation for bankruptcies. One out of every five Tennesseans are filing for bankruptcy—a staggering statistic that deserves serious reflection.

But is bankruptcy the only solution to our financial problems? Or is it just a quick fix that treats symptoms instead of root causes? Bankruptcy may provide immediate relief, but it often comes at a long-term cost. Our goal is not to offer a bandage but to guide you toward lasting healing—by identifying the root issues, addressing them, and creating a sustainable plan. You didn’t get into debt overnight, and you won’t get out overnight either.

Before considering bankruptcy, carefully weigh the consequences. A Chapter 7 bankruptcy, which wipes out most debts except taxes and student loans, stays on your credit report for 10 to 14 years. During that time, you may face difficulty securing a car loan, opening a checking account, buying life insurance, or even finding employment. You might be treated like a second-class citizen, as I once was.

Even a Chapter 13 bankruptcy—which sets up a repayment plan—remains on your credit for seven years. Negative credit history can affect your ability to rent housing, purchase furniture on credit, or finance even basic necessities. In such a climate, cash becomes critical. I’ve known people who, after wiping out their debts through bankruptcy, still didn’t have enough left to save. That’s why saving must become a non-negotiable priority: Save first. Live on the rest.

You should also review your credit reports annually. Mistakes are common, and you have the legal right to dispute and correct inaccurate information. If you’ve been denied credit within the past 30 days, you can request a free report from each of the three major credit bureaus.

Consulting a trusted accountant or attorney is essential before filing for bankruptcy. Laws change, and what once seemed like a solution may now create more problems. Seek out reputable nonprofit organizations that specialize in helping people reduce their debt without resorting to bankruptcy.

But what really happened? Why are so many Americans deep in debt, despite having jobs, families, homes, and even church involvement? Simply put: They didn’t plan to fail—they just failed to plan.

Insurance statistics show that less than 3% of Americans are financially secure enough to retire at 65. Most retire in poverty, with 87% of seniors living on less than $10,000 a year. Time slips away, and before we know it, we’re facing retirement unprepared.

So, what can we do? Develop a plan—today. My mother used to say, "It’s not how much you make, it’s how much you keep." Financial stress affects people in all income brackets—from $10,000 to $200,000 per year. It’s not about income; it’s about discipline and direction.

To build a house, you need blueprints. To rebuild your financial life, you need a plan. Are we trying to get out of debt just to fall back into it? God forbid. This journey takes time. You may feel overwhelmed, but Jesus said:

“If thou canst believe, all things are possible to him that believeth.” (Mark 9:23)

And again:

“Have faith in God... whosoever shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed... and shall not doubt... shall have whatsoever he saith.” (Mark 11:22-26)

If your blueprint includes faith in God, He will help you overcome any mountain, including financial ruin. Your plan should be written, specific, and actionable. Stick to it.

Write down three actions you can take this week toward financial freedom:





12 Steps to Financial Freedom

  1. Recognize that you belong to God. You are not your own—you are bought with a price. Give at least 10% of your time each day to prayer and the study of God’s Word. Write down your prayer requests and celebrate answered prayers.

  2. Stand in faith. Believe God’s promises. Don’t let fear override your faith. The world says, “Seeing is believing,” but faith believes before it sees.

  3. Sow in faith. Like planting a seed, trust that your financial discipline will yield a harvest—30, 60, or 100 times over—in God’s timing.

  4. Tithe. Return 10% of your income to God. Whether it’s from your gross or net income, make tithing a priority. When you tithe, you’re acknowledging God’s ownership and inviting His blessing. Not tithing blocks blessings.

  5. Pay yourself next. Build an emergency fund. Dave Ramsey recommends starting with $1,000. Save what you can—$5, $10, $50. Just start.

  6. Prepare for emergencies. Once your emergency fund is set, shift those savings toward paying off your smallest debt.

  7. Use the debt snowball method. Pay off your smallest debt first. Then apply that payment amount to the next debt. Repeat the process until you’re debt-free.

  8. Create and follow a budget. Know where your money is going. Track every dollar. Adjust spending habits accordingly.

  9. Live within your means. Delay gratification. Avoid new debt. Be content with what you have.

  10. Educate yourself financially. Read books, attend classes, and seek wise counsel. Financial knowledge is power.

  11. Teach your family. Instill sound financial principles in your children. Model discipline and stewardship.

  12. Stay accountable. Share your plan with someone you trust. Review it regularly and make adjustments as needed.

God is faithful. Trust Him. Commit your plan to Him. Stay disciplined, and watch the mountains move.

NOTE: An 8-1/2" x 11" PDF copy of my MONTHLY INCOME AND EXPENSE PLANNING Sheet is available upon request through my CONTACT US box on the right sidebar of this blog.

Tuesday, December 19, 2023

What Does The Bible (WORD) Say About Money?




The word teaches us that "the righteous live by faith, that is, trusting God to meet our daily needs. 


The word teaches us to not be moved or shaken from the faith because of how bad things

look.

The word teaches us two of the Greatest Commandments: Can you recite them? Read Matthew 22:37-39? 

The world teaches us to love money and to want more of it if we are to show the world that we are successful. 

The word teaches us that the love of money is the root of all evil. Money is not evil but the love or obsession with it is. 

The world teaches us we deserve better than what God can provide in this life. 

The word teaches us to be content with such things as God has given us. 

The world teaches us to seek financial independence. Being wealthy is not a sin. 

Many of the saints of the Bible were very wealthy. But, the world teaches us to be independent of God. It teaches us to seek money, money, money so that we can be self-sufficient and to think we do not need God anymore.  The world teaches us, "We are a god!" 

The word teaches us that we own nothing of our own. Everything belongs to God. God gives us the necessities of life; food, shelter, and clothing as he promised in His word. He meets all of our needs. 

The other things available in life are wants. He promises to give us the desires of our hearts but he expects that our desires line up with His desires. If our desires are selfish, sensual, and worldly then our own desires hinder blessings from God. 

It's like what Zig Ziglar calls "Stinking Thinking". "We need a check-up from the neck up." 

What is our relationship to money from God's viewpoint? We are stewards on this earth. We are caretakers or managers of what God has given us to operate within this earth. Our jobs and the income that we bring home are not ours. 

It’s God's.   We are stewards of God's provision and He expects us to manage his possessions well and to return to Him a percentage of the increase based on our God-given ability.  Read the Parable of the Talents in Matthew 25:14-30.

How do we give back to God? 

We give to God when we bless others through our charitable giving toward the needs of others. 

James 1:27 Amplified Version says, "Pure and unblemished religion, as it is expressed in outward acts in the sight of our God and Father is this: to visit and look after the fatherless and the widows in their distress and to keep oneself uncontaminated by the secular, world.“ 

Worship God with the giving of the first fruits of your labors and live off of the rest. God provides the seed for the sower. We'll discuss the "Laws of Sowing and Reaping" later. 

Even our bodies are not our own. "What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which you have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which is God's. I Corinthians 6:19-20 

The world tells us that if we are going to be successful we must show everyone how successful we are by having just the right job, the right house, and the right car. 

The word tells us that you can tell those who are God's by the fruits that they bear. 

Does this mean the material things that they have acquired? No, it means that your very life reveals where your values are, it reveals whether you love God with all of your heart, might, and soul. 

It reveals whether you do love others as you love yourself. 

You will see the fruits when you see that person spending his or her life giving of themselves to helping others instead of spending every waking moment only thinking of themselves and what they want. 

The world says to get all the riches that you can get - buy all of the property that you can, put as many houses and hotels on the board of life as you can so that you can collect money from every poor, less fortunate nobody that comes your way. 

There is nothing wrong with owning property or charging rent but when you are obsessed with getting more at the expense of others then you are doomed to a life of misery.

The word says to "Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and His Righteousness and all of these other things shall be added unto you." 

The word also tells us to store our treasure in heaven, not on this earth. Is it wrong to have wealth? 

No, but we are not to put any importance on that wealth because it is not ours and it will be taken away from us. 

We are to build our true treasures in heaven, not on this earth. (Matthew 6:19-21, and 33). 

The humanistic philosophy says that we are our own god and that we shape our own destiny independent of God. 

The theory is that with money we can solve all the world's problems. 

Our own governmental leaders think that they can solve the world's problems by writing more laws and giving more money to our enemies. 

They do not even have a clue that the change must come from within each individual. 

More laws and more money are not the cure for what ails the world. The humanistic society wants to get rid of the church as we know it because the church gets in the way of its religion (Mannon). 

They just do not realize that the church is the only thing that is holding everything together. 

If the church were to be taken out of this world they don’t realize what a horrible place would be to live in. 

The word says for us to KEEP OUT OF DEBT. "...and owe no man anything, except to love one another." Romans 13:8 (Amplified Bible). 

"Just as the rich rule the poor, so the borrower is servant to the lender" Proverbs 22:7. 

"Evil men borrow and "cannot pay it back'! But the good man returns what he owes with some extra besides" Psalms 37:21. 

"Do not withhold repayment of your debts. Do not say some other time, ' if you can pay now" Proverbs 3:27, and 28. 

"The wise man saves for the future, but the foolish man spends whatever he gets" Proverbs 21:20. 

"Develop your business first before building your house" Proverbs 24:27. 

"Steady plodding brings prosperity; hasty speculation brings poverty" Proverbs 21:5. 

"It is more blessed to give than to receive" Acts 20:35. 

"Instruct them . . . to be generous and ready to share . . . so that they may take hold of that which is life indeed" 1 Timothy 6:18, and19. 

"He who loves money shall never have enough. The foolish of thinking that wealth brings happiness! 

The more you have, the more you spend, right up to the limits of your income." Ecclesiastes 5:10, and 11. 

"No servant can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one, and love the other, or else he will hold to one, and despise the other. You cannot serve God and riches" Luke 16:13.

"Judging a man by his wealth shows that you are guided by the wrong motives" James 2:4. 

Webster's definition of success - the degree or measure of attaining a desired end. 

And according to Scripture, the desired end for us is to become faithful stewards. 

"Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to get along happily whether I have much or little. I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of contentment in every situation, whether it be a full stomach or hunger, plenty or want". Philippians 4:11-12. 

The foundation of our contentment is knowing the part that the living God plays in our finances. He has promised to provide for our needs. 

"All mankind scratches for its daily bread, but your Heavenly Father knows your needs. He will always give you all you need from day to day." Luke 12:30-31. 

Our basic needs are the necessities of life - food, shelter, clothing. A want is anything more than a need. A steak dinner, a new car, and the latest fashions - they are all wants. 

"and if we have food and covering, with these we shall be content" 1 Timothy 6:8. 

"The earth belongs to God! Everything in all the world is His! He is the one who pushed the oceans back to let dry land appear." Psalms 24:1. 

"Everything in the heavens and earth is yours, O Lord, and this is your kingdom." 1 Chronicles 29:11. 

To be content, you must recognize that God is the owner of all your possessions. If you believe you own even a single possession, then the circumstances that affect that possession will be reflected in your attitude. 

If something favorable happens to the possession, then you will be happy: but if something bad occurs, you will be discontent. 

The issue in scripture is how to handle faithfully all God has entrusted us. 

The faithful steward is responsible for what he has, whether he has much or little. 

He can be wasteful and negligent whether he is poor or wealthy. 

The word steward can be translated into three different words: manager, supervisor, and overseer. The Scripture position of a steward is one of great responsibility. 

He is the supreme authority under his master and has full responsibility for all his master's possessions and household affairs, even the raising of children. As we examine Scripture we see that God, as Master, has given us the authority to be stewards. 

"You God have put him, man, in charge of everything you made; everything is put under his authority" Psalms 8:6. 

Our only responsibility is to be faithful. "moreover it is required in stewards, that a man be found faithful" 1 Corinthians 4:2. 

As Christians we have been taught much about giving, but little about how to faithfully handle our money. However, God is not only concerned with the amount we give but also with what we do with our entire income. 

In fact, He is interested in all that we have and what we do with what we have. 

By giving a small percentage, many Christians feel that they can bypass all other responsibilities and do as much as they please with the remainder of their money. 

The worldly Society says: “You will find happiness and peace as you accumulate enough wealth to support your desired standard of living.” 

The Scripture teaches: that you can be content in every circumstance as you follow the scriptural principles of how to handle your money and possessions. 

"My Brethren, count it all for joy when ye fall into divers temptations; knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience." James 1:2, and 3. 

“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 NKJV 

AMEN.

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